love many times have believed in our lives, that at this point we're not even sure if all this has been a dream. We do not know if we'll ever love, or even doubt the existence of the above "love"
However, when we had that strange feeling we have also been drowned out by hundreds of questions, probably more than when they were in love.
-obsession.
Is not it true that in the first stage, we asked hundreds of times if that person shared your feelings? Yes, all of us have asked many times in life, many of them without realizing that we are so blind and want to be so demanding that they do not notice that this person definitely loves us. After we complained at the time he or she gets tired and gives us back looking for someone else, leaving us with a broken heart at the mercy of a hopeless situation.
-Fear.
Some people are happily free from this, but most often more than once terrible jealous over little things, as if we pretend that our partner, or worse, if it still is not "happen every moment his life thinking of us. That is impossible, and if someone is forced to spend too much time with one person, this is only going to push him away with great speed and any positive sentiment. This is something everyone should understand, if somebody loves you will not need chains to remain tied @ to you.
-routine.
probably terrible and difficult stage overcome in any relationship. Boredom confronts us as a subtle and invisible enemy that takes hold of every moment and every smile forced, preventing us to discern the exact time of arrival. How do I know if I've got tired the other person, if we are being too overwhelming? Is the talk every day or have to take a break? In my opinion, breaks are necessary as long as you know when to take them. Never tire pressure or the other person must always leave a track, a word, something for next time. But contrary to what many may think, a break at an inopportune time can be fatal and lead to a catastrophic failure caused by indifference. If someone needs us and is willing to talk with us, have to be there. never let that someone is tired of waiting and realize that you do not need to anything.
-Impatience.
may not mistake me if I dare say that this is an enemy as deadly as the routine. The most difficult to tolerate is the one where you should look at itself and reflect your pride if a rapid response is necessary or best to wait a few minutes, hours or even days. If your bf / gf did not call you for how you'd come home after the movie, no, no need to phone that night. Instead if you think you may have a misunderstanding it is best to clarify things as soon as possible to prevent the problem grow and even worse, hide behind a mask of indifference fragile.
Still, it is a grave mistake to want to judge everyone the same way, so the above are just words can be vaguely accurate.
Al Ultimately, we all love with love, as one person told me one day. And it is now a sad question comes to my mind: if we let love's place in our lives Where is freedom?
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